Valid boundaries do not restrict human potential; they define the safe space within which true autonomy and authentic expression can blossom without fear.
Hank Tate, in Discipline – You Can’t Succeed Without It, shares the results of a study by some child psychologists.
“The psychologists assumed that fences around playgrounds must inhibit children in their play; after all, the fences placed a restriction around them. So they removed the fences and observed the children. What actually happened surprised the psychologists.
When the fences were removed, the children tended to huddle toward the middle of the playground, showed signs of insecurity, and became more inhibited in their play. But when the fences were put back up, the kids loosened up again and played with enthusiasm and freedom.
The boundaries gave them the sense of security they needed.
One of our most important jobs as parents is to set reasonable boundaries for our children’s behaviour….”
From: http://www.illustrationsforsermons.com/
Hank Tate is an author, executive coach, and educator known for his work in leadership, family dynamics, and child development. In his presentation Discipline – You Can’t Succeed Without It, he explores how structure, clear parameters, and thoughtful boundaries provide children with the essential foundation needed for confidence, security and true personal growth.
Released by Singapore Post in 2010, the commemorative set of six stamps titled “Playgrounds” comprises vibrant cartoon illustrations of children enjoying iconic public play areas across Singapore—including Sengkang Sculpture Park, VivoCity Playground, and Pasir Ris Park—celebrating the vital role of unstructured play in developing childhood motor skills, social connection, and enduring community memories. Courtesy: https://playgroundology.wordpress.com